Sex from the rear: a guide for beginners with everything there is to know about this sexual practice

I’m going to try it. Naps contemplating the possibility of enteringnever better said, in the pleasant world of anal sexwe give you the keys so that your raid is all pleasure and no pain.

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The anus has a good number of nerve endings, especially in the outermost area, which can delight whoever decides to stimulate it. In fact, there are those who reach orgasm only with anal penetration, although many need to touch their genitals at the same time to achieve it.

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Men, women, heterosexuals or homosexuals… anal sex is for whoever wants and feels like it. Be that as it may, the undeniable thing is that, for many, it is a source of pleasure. If you are contemplating the possibility of trying and enjoying, go ahead, but there are a few things we want to tell you so that everything goes smoothly.

Why do you have to prepare?

Despite being a “mechanism” that we know, trying to have anal sex for the first time “to the rough”, without preparation, can lead us to feel pain… and therefore we discard this option that perhaps otherwise would have liked. Penetration is penetration, yes, but the vagina and the anus have different characteristics that we must take into account if we want to enjoy the experience. The fundamentals: anus is not ready to dilate in the same way that the vagina doesso you have to “do things differently.” Unlike the vagina, the anus does not produce as much lubrication, so the risk of pain and sores is higher.

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If you are going to have anal sex for the first time…

1. Be clear about your reasons

Some studies, such as the one conducted at California State University, show that many women show negative emotions after having anal sex, such as shame or sadness. Much of this discomfort is due to the fact that we do it for the wrong reasons (they are also caused by things that the couple has done or said during the encounter, of course). Like everything in sex, please It has to be done from freedom and appetite, from wanting to enjoy our body and explore our possibilities and ways of pleasure… not because our partner has been insisting for years and we want to give him a birthday present. Sex, be it anal, vaginal or sobacal – there are tastes for everything – is not something “to go through”, it is something for you, it is pleasure and, above all, it is self-love. So in general, and with anal sex in particular, do it because you feel like it, for nothing else. If you are not convinced, if you are nervous, your muscles will be tense, and then this type of penetration (although the same thing would happen to you with vaginal tension) will be, for sure, annoying and painful. What’s the point? Neither.

2. Little by little, soft, soft…

Perhaps it was not Luis Fonsi’s intention, but the title of his song is the mantra to follow in these cases. As he said before, the anus does not dilate like the vagina, so we have to “help” it and do it little by little. The ideal is to start with a little finger. That everything is going well? Well, let’s go with two… So the moment of penetration with the penis will not be as annoying as if we tried it “from scratch”. Another way to help dilate, and by the way to enjoy along the way, is to use sex toys: you can start with an anal plug, like these small Plátanomelon ones, and gradually increase in size, or with dildos that have a finer tip than the base (and introduce them little by little, while the anus dilates).

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3. The lubricant is our ally

Unlike the vagina, which is lubricated naturally (although it is not always enough), the anus does not have this “function”, so we have to be the ones who provide “the extra”. The use of lubricant in anal sex is important, because otherwise we run the risk of the condom breaking (and we do not want this under any circumstances), of hurting ourselves (a bleeding wound in that area is not the best memory of a sexual encounter, right?) and really needlessly having a hard time.

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There are lubricants specially made for anal sex that do not dry out so quickly, thus avoiding unnecessary friction. always choose one water or silicone basednever massage oil, body oil… or other oils, since, in addition to carrying a risk of infection, they compromise the integrity of the condom and you can get a good scare.

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4. Use a condom

Many see anal sex as a way to have sex without need to use a condom: “Totally, it’s through the back door… and babies aren’t made that way.” The problem is that this approach makes water everywhere: I’m sorry to tell you that yes, practicing anal penetration there is a possibility of pregnancy. Tachan! The semen can be dragged without realizing it to the vagina, we can get confused and go from anus to vagina (don’t do it, I’ll give you more reasons later), etc. and meet with an unpleasant surprise. The risk of an unwanted pregnancy is not the only reason to use condoms, there are sexually transmitted diseases! Herpes, gonorrhea, warts… Please use a condom. Since the anus does not lubricate like the vagina, a condom with some lubrication it will help a lot in penetration. Help with hygiene: you can use the condom, in fact, not only on the penis, but also on your fingers or with your sex toys, so it will be enough to remove it and you will not have to clean up in the middle of the encounter, because…. Continue reading, I tell you more about this point.

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5. Vagina-anus yes, anus-vagina no

If you are going to go from anal to vaginal penetration, change condom (this is another advantage of using it, that it is faster than going to clean yourself). The anus, in addition to giving pleasure, has another function, its main task, in fact. You know what I mean, right? Yes, we are talking about feces. If we go from anus to vagina with the same condom (or without it, ahem), we will be dragging debris and the chances of contracting a vaginal infection they are tall

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6. Cleanliness, hygiene and “that” that worries you

Many people are quite worried about the idea that they can stain themselves, or stain their playmate, with what the anus manufactures. The idea that your feces appear in the middle of the fun may put you off, but… A person who follows correct hygiene measures will have their anus as clean as any other part of the body, such as the vulva without going further away. The anus does not lubricate like the vagina, but it has a very effective self-cleaning function. So you don’t have to obsess over it.
enemas and washes: it is a possibility and there are many who prefer to do it to guarantee that there are no “obvious” remains, but… it is also not a guarantee that there is nothing at all and it requires preparation and a bit of force to the body (if you have already gone to the bath…). If you are going to take a bath, do not use gels or products that are not specific to the area, that could cause an infection. Yes, it is a possibility: traces of feces may appear, and you should reflect on whether it is something you are going to feel comfortable with or not. Maybe you want to put some sheets that you don’t care much about… or maybe you just don’t care at all because, after all, everything washes away. Do what makes you feel comfortable!

7. Take control

To avoid hurting yourself, it is important that you have control over the depth and angle of the penetration, as well as the rhythm, so it is recommended that you start with positions that allow you to control the penetration. For example, sitting on your partner It is a good option since it is you who has control over these variables, you who decide whether or not more or how much more. However, positions such as the classic “doggy style”, despite the fact that a priori it is the first one we think of when we imagine anal sex, are more risky since, due to the angle, it is easy for penetration to be too deep and therefore harm you.

8. Yes, you may feel like…

At first, with the beginning of penetration, it is possible that the sensation you have is not exactly pleasure… but rather the very sensation that you are pooping. So keep calm and don’t panic, it’s just a feeling, it doesn’t mean you’re leaving… Have fun, talk about it with your partner, reflect on your reasons, choose the moment, enjoy… and if you don’t like it, not repeat. Sex is wonderful and there are a thousand ways to enjoy it, anal sex is just one of them, and no, not everyone likes it. Photos: Unsplash.com; pexels.com

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